“I love my girlfriend, but I fear that we may never be the same anymore…”
It’s Thursday! Yass, the weekly episodes of Only On Vasiti – Agony Aunt. If you’re joining us for the first time, you’re welcome. Agony Aunt is a relationship counsellor, so to say. You send your relationship issues to her email address and she gives you provable solutions every Thursday.
Having said that, how are your love lives, guys? I hope you guys are happy with your significant others or happy being single? We should always remember that our happiness lies within us alone and is not dependent on someone else.
Moving to the deal of the day, love comes with sacrifices and a lot of forgiveness. I got a report last week, let us check it out.
“Hi. So I have a girlfriend. We’ve been dating for eight months, there about. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I love her that much. But she fucked up real good last week. There’s this other guy that likes her. So I read their chat and I didn’t like what I saw. She was being overly friendly with him. Sending him pictures and he sent her a video of himself. It just looked really wrong. I know she didn’t have bad intentions, but the image is just stuck to my head. I’m not sure things will be the same anymore. What should I do? Keep me anon ”
So yeah, as I earlier said, love comes with sacrifices and forgiveness. You said she had no bad intentions. You have to forgive and let go. If you keep holding on to past mistakes, you guys would never be the same, actually.
We are humans, we make mistakes and disappoint, but if you really love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her, you have to forgive.
Don’t get it twisted. I’m not asking you to be a fool for love. I’m only asking you to forgive shortcomings that you can forgive.
If you can’t forgive and let go, it’s best you guys take a break to reconsider the relationship. If you don’t trust her, then there’s no point of dating in the first place. Communication is also really important. Talk things out with her and let her know exactly how you feel.
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