How can people deal with insecurity in a relationship?
Before you answer that, check out the mail I got last week:
Dear Agony Aunt,
My man and I have been together for six months, and while he’s loving and everything I could ask for in a man, he’s just too insecure.
He is always hovering me, my whereabouts, who I’m texting, who I’m on the phone with.
If I’m picking a call in his presence, it has to be on loudspeaker.
I have never cheated, and I never will; but it’s just sickening and controlling. I can’t live like this. I’m starting to resent him.
Here’s how I replied:
You have every reason to be fed up. The thing about this kind of behavior is that, it gets worse with time.
So, if you’re thinking it is going to change, then you’re in for a long, different ride. Also, overtime, attitudes such as this evolve into abuse.
My advise? Run while you can.
What do you think?
Drop your advice for her.
Meanwhile, are you having relationship issues you want to talk about?
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