Agony Aunt Series – I Am Tired Of Taking Postinor.

Sometimes, people are the architects of their own problems. You will understand this when you read this mail I got last week:

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am in a long distance relationship, as my boyfriend is in Abuja and I in Lagos. So, I have been quarantining with a guy I met two months ago.

Although it wasn’t my intention; we kind of hit it off when we first met, and when he told me to stay with him for the lockdown, I was like, why not?

It hasn’t been that bad. The only thing is we have been having sex a lot and he doesn’t like to use a condom. So I’ve been using postinor.

But I’m still scared. Mistake can happen. I don’t want to get pregnant; I still love my boyfriend; and we’ve been talking marriage.

How do I tell this guy that I don’t want sex? I don’t want to leave his house, because he’s a really nice guy and I enjoy his company.

This was how I replied:

Dear Writer,

The only thing you need right now is to determine what is more important to you: your boyfriend, or a guy you met two months ago.

If you love your boyfriend and do want to take things to the next level with him; then another man’s house is the last place you should be, and having sex with him is the last thing you should be doing.

What do you think? Drop a piece of advice for her.

Meanwhile, send us your relationship issues if you want to talk: agonyaunt@vasiti.com

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Ife
Ife

Wonders shall never end

Oyindamola Awosika

Abi o

Dami
Dami

You don’t have sense

Oyindamola Awosika

At all

Fisayo
Fisayo

Women will embarrass you

Oyindamola Awosika

Lol

Obi
Obi

lol. True that

Chuka
Chuka

Focus on your boyfriend madam

Oyindamola Awosika

Abi o

Oby
Oby

Your boyfriend and a guy you met two months ago just cause you like his company. Is he worth it?
Postinor is not even to be taken as a regular contraceptive. It’s a morning after pill. You have no idea what you’re doing. Better detangle yourself from this and go and self isolate.

Oyindamola Awosika

Exactly

Obi
Obi

The girl is mad. But where does your boyfriend think you are all this while? You are only killing yourself with postinor BTW

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