With the way the world is going, there is probably nothing that will shock you anymore.
Maybe this one will. Check out this mail I got last week:
Dear Agony Aunt,
I do not even know where to start from. I am a married woman, and it is not like I don’t love my husband cos I do. I really do.
But when my father in law comes around, I don’t know what comes over me. I just start having these immoral thoughts and imaginations.
I even started watching father in law porn. I am afraid I will do something I am going to regret sooner or later.
And I don’t want to lose my marriage.
This is a tough one, as you do not see this everyday. Here’s how I replied:
First things first, does your husband and his father have a close resemblance? Perhaps that is why you feel attracted to your father in law.
Perhaps you are projecting the attraction you feel towards your husband; on his father.
Or maybe you are just attracted to father and son.
Why don’t you try distancing yourself from him and focus on your husband. That might do the trick.
Or maybe you should try therapy.
Share and drop a piece of advice for her.
She’ll need it!