It’s Thursday! Yass, the weekly episodes of Only On Vasiti – Agony Aunt. If you’re joining us for the first time, you’re welcome. Agony Aunt is a relationship counsellor, so to say. You send your relationship issues to her email address and she gives you provable solutions every Thursday.
Having said that, how are your love lives, guys? I hope you guys are happy with your significant others or happy being single? We should always remember that our happiness lies within us alone and is not dependent on someone else.
Moving to the deal of the day, its okay to really show love and care in your relationship, but don’t be in your partner’s face too much. Let’s look at this report.
“Hey Agony Aunt. I don’t know what to do. At first, i thought my boyfriend was merely really caring, but he’s just too overprotective. He just always wants to be around me, always calling, knowing where I am at. Sometimes, i need my personal space. It’s not like I’ve cheated on him before oh. I really dobt know what to do. Please keep me anon”
Its absolutely normal for your partners to want to check up and see how you’re doing and your whereabouts. It shows they care and they’re interested in what you are up to.
But when it becoes too much, there’s a problem. It’s either he does not trust you, or he does not know how to draw the line between care and overprotectiveness.
When you become over protective, you tend to irritate and chase the girl away. Let her have her space. I’m sure if she was in your face, you would not like this.
If you don’t trust her, speak to her about this. Tell her why you dont trust her. If she does not change, its better you guys split ways, because there is no point of dating when the guy does not trust the girl.
Also, the girl should talk to her boyfriend about it, he probably does not even know he’s crossing the line.
If you have any advice for her on this issue, please drop them at the comments section below.
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Have a lovely love life. ?