It’s Thursday , and we are back with our weekly episodes of Only On Vasiti – Agony Aunt Series.
I hope you guys are having a good love life.
This week, there is this very funny report I would love to share with you guys. It has to do with double dating though. Let’s look at this report…
“Agony Aunty, I’m heart broken. ????? I don’t even know what to do. I’ve never been this heart broken before oh, and me I’m normally a hard guy. ??
I have three boyfriends. I know, I know. Girls can be scum, but I’m like this because a fuck boy broke my heart in secondary school. Don’t tell me to date only one person ohhh. I’m not greeing. ??? and you know you can’t keep all your eggs in one basket. Sha sha the problem is that one of them wants to break up with me ohh.??? I don’t know what I did. He just started acting somehow and he said he wants a break. He didn’t say there was any problem or he caught me cheating. He only said that he needs to think about his life and where he is heading with the relationship. He hasn’t complained about me before. We always resolve our issues. ? Break bawo? ? from where? ??? and I actually really like this one. We have been going out since year one. He’s like my ride or die.? edakun, what should I do? Keep me anon ohhhh ah.”
Lmao. ??? yes, girls can be scum. Well, I would have to be truthful here. You can’t keep your eggs in one basket, and you cannot also eat your cake and have it.
You love him yes, if you love him, you would not do anything to hurt him. Cheating on him is hurting him. He may not have found out, but sooner or later, he is going to find out, and it’s not going to be nice.
If you love him as much as you say you do, you’d have to keep him and do not hurt him. Convince him that you’re the best for him and your relationship with him is going a long way.
But if you cannot stop double dating, then let him go. If you keep him, and still double date, you’re just hurting him, which contradicts your love for him.
Those are my two advise for you. Keep him and don’t double date OR double date and do not keep him.
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