Although, sometimes some people do not like to agree, sex is a very important aspect of relationships; and sometimes, it can even make or break the relationship.
Don’t think so?
Take a look at this mail I got last week:
Dear Agony Aunt,
I do not want to seem ungrateful, because I am blessed with the man of my dreams; and my relationship is nothing but sweet. My partner and I both love sex, a lot, however, my boyfriend does not last longer than two minutes.
Although I have not officially complained about it to him, I am really worried, because, recently, he has been talking about settling down, and getting married.
But, I do not want to suffer this in marriage. I really ill not be able to cope, and it scares me.
What can I do?
Not an unusual problem, but very delicate. This was how I reponded:
Yours is not the first case of this, and it definitely will not be the last. You love your man, you love your relationship; then you should be able to give it your all.
First things first, talk to him, tell him how it makes you feel; and guess what? That is part of the problem solved!
Then, you can both work from there; see a doctor, approach medical or herbal solutions; even see a sex therapist.
You just need to fight for your relationship.
Do you have any advice for her? She will be reading the comments.
Meanwhile, check out what this girl did to her boyfriend for having too many female friend.