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My Boyfriend Has Issues With Me Collecting Money from A Guy

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Heyy guys.

It’s Thursday! Yass, the weekly episodes of Only On Vasiti – Agony Aunt.  If you’re joining us for the first time, you’re welcome. Agony Aunt is a relationship counselor, so to say. You send your relationship issues to her email address and she gives you probable solutions every Thursday.

Having said that, how are your love lives, guys? I hope you guys are happy with your significant others or happy being single? We should always remember that our happiness lies within us alone and is not dependent on someone else.

Today, we shall be looking at:

“My Boyfriend Has Issues With Me Collecting Money from A Guy.”

So, I got this report last week, and it’s something we need your views on, both male and female alike. We need to know how the public feels about this. Kindly, let us have your views on the comment section below.

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Relationship issues

Let us look at the report.

“Hey Agony Aunt… So yeah, there is this guy that really likes me. He has been disturbing me since, telling me he wants to marry me. He’s rich and he is a working class guy. I can’t even say I want to marry him because I am still very young to think about marriage, I’m still in school, and I have a long way to go sef. Plus he is a lot older than me. I have a boyfriend. Obviously, I love my boyfriend so much, but he is threatened with this guy, asper this other guy that likes me. This guy sends money into my account every month. It is not like he sends 100000k or 1000000, he sends 10k. Don’t get me wrong, I really appreciate it, but my boyfriend has a problem with me collecting the money. He sends the money directly to my account, and my boyfriend wants me to be rejecting it. I told my boyfriend about it because I really have nothing to hide. I would not cheat on my boyfriend. I don’t ask my boyfriend for money, because he has no obligation to send me money. I have also never asked this other guy for money, he sends it at his own volition. Everyone likes free money na, why should I refuse it?  I feel this thing is going to cause serious problems in our relationship. I really don’t know what to do. Let it not be like because of 10k, I lost my boyfriend. Please keep me anon.”

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Collecting money from a guy
Relationship issues

The Solution

Well, honestly, I understand where the guy is coming from. It is kinda ego killing for a guy’s girl babe to be collecting money from a guy. I mean, it would add unnecessary pressure to him, because all he wants to do is to make you happy, but you are kinda finding that happiness somewhere else.  I feel you should quit collecting the money from the guy, because I am sure he does not know that you have a boyfriend, that is why he keeps sending you money. If he does, he won’t even send at all.

Please, let us have your view on this.


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